So this one is a quick post as had a few things that I wanted to say. Due to my loving wife having to fight of some kind of flu, she was having trouble breathing, which meant struggling to look after the little bean. This is actually the reason for both thoughts in this blog. If you knew my wife, which some of you will and a lot of you won’t, however she is a tough one that one. She rarely takes sick days, like one a century and that’s down to her iron will and her immune system of steal. So when the other half asks me to come home to help I know that she’s not just struggling with a small case of the sniffles. On arriving home I find my wife crying and in a lot of pain, so I take over and let her get some rest. Which is when I realized something had changed since having the bean.
Before having a child I would call in sick when I was ill (or wanted a day off) but it was my illness that stopped me. Now I find myself in work fighting off a cold at my desk because I have already taken off sick days for my little one. Sick days are reserved for our children now, we have to fight the illness at work to the moans and complaints from colleagues, it’s all changed now. Those with children will understand, but still join in with the moaning, and will sit and suffer when they are ill. We are in this together and our children’s health comes first, who cares about the parents?
So my second thought today happened when I walked in and took over baby duties. My wife had already informed me that our little explorer had decided to face plant into the fireplace and cut her mouth. What I didn’t expect was when looking at her to think she was about to ask me ‘Why so serious?’ or ‘Do you want to know how I got these scars?’ All she needed was a matching mark on the other side of her mouth, some white face paint, lipstick, green hair and I would have sworn I was looking at a mini (female) Heath Ledger’s joker. Luckily the marks not permanent (we hope) and will be gone in a few days (we hope) which got me onto another thought.
I wonder if people when they see a mark on a baby out and about, think that their parents must hit them. I mean our baby has had a few bruises from her exploring and I am sure she will endure some more as she discovers the world and the hard things that inhabit it. Sometimes it does look like we’ve hit her in the head, when in truth we just didn’t catch her in time as she falls head first into the side of the changing table. I’ve not had any looks of concern from other people but give it time, I’m sure it will happen.