Family can be a funny thing, they are the people in our lives that we cannot choose, we are related to them by blood, birth and history. Sometimes we get on with them, other times we do not. Sometimes we know them for their entire lives and other times we only know them for a short amount. Most of the time we love them, with short bouts of anger and disappointment but in the end, family is family.
Friends on the other hand, like the TV show says, will be there for you throughout and friends are picked by you, you have chosen them to be part of your lives. This can sometimes make them more special than family, and sometimes they are part of the family for life. The reason I am talking about this is that I come from a very small family and currently our daughter only has one uncle and two aunts (Uncle is my brother, his girlfriend is her aunt and my sister in law is her other aunt).
Now I love my brother and his girlfriend, and my wife loves her sister, however non of them really like children. My brother and his girlfriend have, on many occasions, expressed how much they don’t like children. They prefer animals, owning a small zoo in their home. My sister in law, though lovely, doesn’t really have any interest in our daughter, she also lives quite far away. So that brings me to my point that my daughter is going to grow up calling our friends aunt and uncle, though they are not related to us, and I am looking forward to this.
As I said, you can choose your friends and these friends we have chosen mean the world to us. They are in our lives for a reason and I am glad to see our daughter grow with them in her life. That’s not to say her real aunt’s and uncle will not be present, they will be whether they like it or not.